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• OTKSessions 4fems

  

  • 1 posts
  November 26, 2010 10:43:26 PM MST

  A Dom man who loves spanking the female bottom, im Jim S. private enjoyment that involves many levels and think of your desire for release or an infraction you need to be spanked for, bad,bad girl. does the thought of a bare buttock OTK lenghty spanking make you..you know, I know, lets discuss it. does being held accountable need to be looked into, and getting spanked for what you have done something that is overdue? I think of spanking 24/7 as many of you do.

  
  

  Im into all levels of spankings and would be interested in what your needs are,I enjoy medical play and bondage wiith a willing mind and bottom. weekends are nice for play and lets keep it between us. location: the Mn-Wi border, near the airport, imagine that, a nice tight bottom,in skin tight jeans,yes.

• Margaret Davis

  

  • 2 posts
  January 19, 2011 2:56:40 PM MST

  Respectfully, Dom man, I spend hours of my time warning female bottoms against the very situation you offer. You are asking a female to leave the safety of her own world and go out into your neck of the woods without any real knowledge of you. Anyone who would take you up on your offer clearly would be taking a risk. You may be the nicest man on earth but it’s a 50/50 bet.
  
  
  
  Also, you are guessing that the lady you invite into your home is normal, safe and law abiding. What are you thinking? You’re opening yourself up to such a liability if she turned out to be a nut job; or worse, a nut job with friends hiding in the woods.
  
  
  
  A better idea would be for you to realize that you have to travel, network, show up and get yourself out there. Move it. You have to establish some kind of reputation with a group and draw female guests from that group. All of us have traveled and I grant you it’s a pain and it can get expensive but being safe and sane is part of the deal before you begin.
  
  
  
  One more thing and I’m not aiming this particularly at you but before people leave the house men should take a long look in the mirror. There is no substitute for good personal hygiene, nice clothes, polished shoes (I don’t like sneakers on male tops when they spank but that’s just me), combed hair and manicured hands. If men want to be male tops they have to look like a man with control; a man who can make a good adult decision. A male top that dresses like a kid or a slob doesn’t always fly. How do I know? I’ve been running spanking parties for years and I know what many ladies like.
  
  
  
  Have a great time,
  
  Margaret Davis