Hallo every one, I was just wondering about something. A Domestic discipline relationship is a wonderfull thing between a couple, but why is it, that sometimes you just feel that your simply not in the mood for a maintenace spanking. That's a agreement between the two of you, but you just don't feel like it, other times the huband also doesn't feels like it. Could it be that a couple want it to be realistic and not something that must happen every week, on the same day and time. There's nothing exiting about a spanking if it feels like work, that must be done. Sure sometimes it is wonderfull, but still there is alot of times, that there is realy nothing special about it. It is a learning school for couples in such a relationship, you never stop learning. Maby it is just a fase to pass, don't know, could it be that some couples just don't know how to make it work for them. Please if anyone have an exciting thought about maintenace, share it with me, I realy want it to be a fun and a learning time between a couple, not something that feels like work. Please share with me how many times do you get or recieve a maintenace spanking, does it work for you, and is it something special for you as a couple. If any spanker can tell me how does it feel for them to give a spanking for no reason at all, that would be very nice.