By now everyone knows about a young lady abuse. And there seems to be a misconception about S&M, Bondage & Discipline and Spanking. First of all spanking is not S&M but it maybe included in S&M. I personally don't like S&M nor Bondage and Discipline. For what I do like does not excuse me to be abusive. I discipline myself to set a limit on how hard and how many swats I give her (any girl). Previous spanker paddle Pamelia too hard, all you need to do is pop the paddle, no need to go full swing. But I do confessed that I got carry away with the hairbrush. So by the next session, she and her boyfriend hid the hairbrush. lol. I vow never to get carry away again, That was unforgiveable of me.
Other part of being disciplinarian is being on the same level as the person you are discipline. Do you toward over your children? Or do you get down on your knees to hug them? When it comes to discipline them you don't stand over them, that is intimidating. Rather you come down to their level. The same is with adults, You don't make yourself superiour to them, but you make yourself egual to them. I know their is certain chain of command to follow but that is who is responsible making sure rules are follow and that consequence are meet for violation of rules.
Its up to the disciplianary to choose the proper punisment for the rules that are broken.. So what do you choose for someone that steps outline? Corporeal Punishment? If so what do you used? Baseball Bat? I hope not, if so someone need to crack your head. Choose wisely, unless you spend life in the Pen. Most people seem to like the cane, personally to me it is too British. I grew up with belts and paddles. For my beloved mother it was the razor strap.
If you choose your hand where do you strike? Do you used your fist? WAY No, you jerk, you mucho jackass. Unless you are in fight with another men you never ever ever used your fist. Where do you strike? Ok enough with the questions. Women are naturally beautiful it is there face that attracts guys like us, then follows their other features. Women go through alot trouble to fix themself up for us. So what does it do their self-esteem to be batter?
I fear for a young ladies life and I pray that she break off the relationship with this jerk. He is lucky, for my former army buddies would have given him a blanket party. I pray that she would find someone that would protect her honour, So one that would fight for her and would protect her. My blood bowls to think that she is being treated this way. But lets not kill him but rather turn him over to the police and maybe to a mental specialist.
Anyway I title this "I am non-existance" because I feel as if I don't exist at all on this site. But there are women out there like Nina who are batter everyday, they feel alone in their abuse. No we don't feel your pain, but you are not alone. Someone wants to help you escape the abuse, someone cares for you. Someone crys for you.
